Kate Middleton and Prince William ‘acutely aware’ of the problems for Charlotte and Louis

Kate Middleton and Prince William are taking a thoughtful and modern approach to raising their younger children, Princess Charlotte and Prince Louis, as “spares” to future King, Prince George. According to royal expert Jennie Bond, the Prince and Princess of Wales are acutely aware of the challenges their younger children may face in the shadow of their older brother, who is in direct line to the throne. They aim to prepare Charlotte and Louis for lives of fulfillment outside of royal duties, should they choose, while ensuring they feel valued and important within the royal family.

This modern parenting approach stems from Kate’s interest in early years education, which focuses on creating supportive and nurturing environments for children. By raising their children with these principles in mind, the couple is working to prevent Charlotte and Louis from feeling like they must follow a predetermined path in royal service. Instead, they hope to provide their younger children with the freedom to explore their own interests and passions, whether they align with royal life or not.

One potential path for Prince Louis could be a career in the military or charity work, which would allow him to serve the public while also carving out his own identity. The Prince and Princess of Wales are expected to encourage their children to pursue higher education, a choice that William and Kate both cherished, as it was at university where they met and fell in love. For Charlotte and Louis, education may open up new possibilities that allow them to find their own way outside the traditional royal framework, making contributions that resonate with them personally.

An important part of William and Kate’s parenting strategy is instilling empathy and a sense of service in their children. The couple emphasizes the importance of understanding and caring for others, believing that such values will not only benefit society but also provide their children with a rewarding sense of purpose. Even if Charlotte and Louis decide to undertake royal duties, the emphasis on kindness and service ensures they approach their roles with a sense of duty rather than obligation.

The term “spare” has gained renewed attention following Prince Harry’s memoir *Spare*, in which he opened up about his struggles with being the second-born royal. The phrase originated from the historical expectation that the “spare” would act as a backup in case the heir to the throne could not fulfill their duties. However, for Charlotte and Louis, William and Kate are striving to prevent them from feeling like backups or afterthoughts in the royal hierarchy. They aim for their younger children to feel just as valued as George, despite the difference in their positions within the line of succession.

Looking to other members of the royal family for inspiration, Jennie Bond points out that Prince Edward and Sophie, the Duke and Duchess of Edinburgh, are excellent role models for Charlotte and Louis. As “spares” themselves, Edward and Sophie have successfully navigated their roles within the royal family, becoming invaluable assets through their public service. Their dedication to causes such as gender equality, arts, and charity work has earned them respect within the family and beyond. Bond believes their example shows Charlotte and Louis how to make meaningful contributions as royals without being overshadowed by the heir.

As Charlotte and Louis grow older, William and Kate’s modern parenting approach is expected to help them forge identities beyond being George’s siblings. The royal couple’s goal is to raise independent, empathetic individuals who feel empowered to choose their own paths while maintaining the values of public service and empathy. With examples like Edward and Sophie to follow, Charlotte and Louis have a strong foundation on which to build their own legacies, within or outside the royal fold.