Prince William and Queen Camilla have experienced a complex relationship since their first meeting, but recent developments suggest a gradual thawing in their rapport. Their relationship has been marked by ups and downs, beginning when William, then a teenager, was first introduced to Camilla Parker Bowles by his father, King Charles, in 1998. At the time, William was 17 years old and home on a break from Eton College when he met the woman who would later become his stepmother at Clarence House.
According to royal expert Christopher Andersen, author of *The King: The Life of Charles III*, Camilla was extremely nervous during this initial meeting. Andersen told *Us Weekly* that she was “shaking like a leaf” and needed a gin and tonic to calm her nerves after William left. This reaction underscored the awkwardness and tension surrounding Camilla’s integration into the lives of Charles’s sons, particularly given her history as the “other woman” in their father’s marriage to Princess Diana. Both William and his younger brother, Harry, were acutely aware of their father’s affair with Camilla while he was still married to their mother.
Following the tragic death of Princess Diana in August 1997, Charles and Camilla were able to publicly pursue their relationship, eventually marrying in 2005. Despite this, William and Camilla’s relationship remained complicated, reflecting the deep-seated emotions tied to their family’s past.
However, over the years, the relationship between William and Camilla has evolved and softened. A significant turning point came this summer when Prince William decided to cut ties with Camilla’s sister, Annabel Elliot, who had worked as the principal interior designer for the Duchy of Cornwall for nearly two decades. While some saw this as a potential source of family tension, Andersen clarified that it was a necessary business decision rather than a personal slight. “William wants his own team in there,” he explained, suggesting that William’s decision was more about establishing his own leadership style and preferences rather than any animosity towards Camilla or her family.
Despite this potential source of friction, Camilla and William’s relationship has recently seen marked improvements, especially in light of the health challenges faced by both King Charles and Princess Kate, who are reportedly undergoing cancer treatment. According to a friend of the Parker Bowles family, William has gradually “warmed up to Camilla over time,” and now shares a more “familial relationship” with her. However, as an insider noted, “There’s a lot to overcome,” particularly given William and Harry’s deep loyalty to their late mother, which fostered a longstanding distrust and resentment towards Camilla.
The Princess of Wales, Kate Middleton, has played a crucial role in helping to ease the tensions between her husband and his stepmother. According to reports, Kate has been “accepting of Camilla long before others in the royal family,” and her efforts to build bridges have been instrumental in fostering a more positive relationship between William and Camilla. Both William and Kate reportedly appreciate Camilla’s down-to-earth nature and the sense of normality she brings to King Charles’s life, with the Queen Consort being praised for “keeping it real” in a similar way to Kate.
However, royal expert Christopher Andersen has a different perspective, suggesting that Camilla was initially opposed to William and Kate’s relationship because she was “kind of a snob” and did not believe Kate was of “their class” to marry into the aristocracy. This view, however, has been proven wrong by the enduring success of William and Kate’s marriage. The couple remains happily married, and they are the proud parents of three children more than a decade after their 2011 wedding.
Despite some historical disagreements and underlying tensions, William and Camilla have managed to find a comfortable balance in their relationship, motivated by their shared concern for King Charles’s happiness. As one source concluded, “If his dad’s happy, William is happy.” This mutual understanding has allowed them to navigate their differences and foster a more amicable relationship for the sake of their shared family.