The relationship between Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton has long been a topic of public interest, with numerous incidents highlighting the differences in their personalities and approaches to royal life. An early example was during a Royal Foundation Forum in 2018, where Meghan remarked on the benefit of differing personalities within the group, suggesting that diversity in thought was essential for progress. This comment, though seemingly positive, hinted at underlying differences between her and Kate.
The differences became more evident over time, particularly during public appearances. For instance, during a walkabout at Windsor Castle following Queen Elizabeth II’s death, Kate’s actions were notably distant. A body language expert noted that Kate exited the car without acknowledging Meghan, walking briskly to join her husband William, leaving Meghan to follow at a distance. This moment was seen as indicative of Kate’s unwillingness to engage with Meghan.
Meghan and Kate’s strained relationship also played out during events like Wimbledon. Despite appearing friendly, body language analysis suggested a lack of genuine closeness. During their joint appearance in 2018, they shared laughter, but without the depth of a blossoming friendship. By their second visit in 2019, signs of tension were more apparent. Meghan was positioned between Kate and her sister Pippa, possibly to show unity, but this only highlighted the absence of a deeper bond between Kate and Meghan.
Further tension was revealed in private moments, such as the infamous bridesmaid dress incident. Initially reported as Meghan making Kate cry, Meghan later clarified in her interview with Oprah Winfrey that it was she who was left in tears. This event, along with others like a disagreement over a comment about “baby brain,” as recounted in Harry’s memoir “Spare,” underscored the friction between them.
Despite these conflicts, there have been attempts at reconciliation. Meghan reportedly reached out to Kate following recent health concerns within the royal family, indicating a willingness to mend fences. However, while Kate is also open to moving forward, there remains a cautious distance, especially as William and Harry’s relationship continues to be strained.
Overall, the complex dynamics between Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton illustrate the broader challenges within the royal family, shaped by personal differences, public scrutiny, and the pressures of their roles. These tensions have manifested in subtle gestures and public interactions, painting a picture of a relationship that has struggled to find genuine harmony.